By Tina Gallion. May 17, 2018. Tina Gallion has spent the last year and a half living in a tiny house with her husband and two sons on their property in Underwood, Wash. During that time, she has been able to reflect on the struggles of living in a small space, as well as the joys and life lessons that such an experience provides. Here are a few of those lessons, many of which can apply to any living situation…

Living in a small space forces us to ask ourselves an important question: “What do we really need?” Photo by Tina Gallion.

Shopping is tempting?whether it?s online, in a catalogue/magazine or at a store, just try to avoid it.

  • If you do need to buy something, think about every purchase: go for quality and try to buy lightly used instead of new.
  • Remember that you don?t really need what the commercials say you need, and that our Christmas culture is insane.
  • When thinking about shopping, always ask this question first: “What do I really need?”

The tiny house forces you to deal with your problems.

  • As a family, it’s easier to avoid issues in a big house, but in a tiny house you talk more and retreat less.
  • Emotions are magnified in small spaces, so when you live in close quarters your words and emotions count.
  • Kids can’t sneak around in a tiny house and it’s easier to manage electronics.

It’s not as small as you think it is.

  • Don’t blame it on the tiny house; it could happen in a big house too.
  • Not having a mortgage or house payment makes life less stressful.
  • You can still have people over in your tiny house; you just might be outside by the fire.
  • The tiny house feels cozy and safe.
  • It’s better for the planet.
  • People love tiny houses; they create universally good vibrations.

Less is more.

  • You don’t need a huge kitchen, and the less clothes you have the easier it is to get dressed. Plus, not having a long mirror is great!
  • When you have to get your own water you end up using a lot less.

Focus on experiences, not stuff.

  • Experience the world outside your door more often. The library is one of the best parts of the community.
  • Stuff has energy, some positive and some negative, and too much stuff does not feel good.
  • Everyone I talk to says they feel better when they have discarded and decluttered.
  • Remember that stuff is HARD to get rid of. Live with less so you don’t have to manage it.